My husband really wanted to participate in our baby shower, but the thought of women screaming and sighing over every little thing that I pulled out of a gift bag made him crazy. So, I decided that he can have his own "baby shower" - Estrogen free! I invited all of his male friends over for a "Cigar Party". This was a male baby shower where all of his guy friends came and watched Football and ate food. Of course they told stories of Fatherhood. It was great. There were no gifts - just gift cards!